I don’t believe in love from first sight, I don’t believe that love is the higher , stronger emotion ever! Unless we are talking about parent and child love.
Love (as an emotion between 2 peers in a romantic way) isn’t real, at least not the way people think it is loved don’t climb mountains, it don’t change people and it defiantly don’t conquer all.
Love is an emotion we control with our heads before anything, people who say love is blind are liars cause love is NOT blind they are, more specifically they CHOOSE to be.
I’ve never had a crush, a flirt, love. All those years in my life I’ve never loved someone (in a romantic way)
I might be cold but I don’t think so I adore my family and I’d do nearly anything for them. But I have a head over my shoulders that think and calculate every time I meet someone new I have 2 mental lists (and he’d fall into one of them) , people I might love people, I would never love. The people I might love list is a list of people I’d be willing to give a chance if they ever approach me.
Again I don’t think am cold, I just have a head I choose to use like people choose not to.
The person you choose to spend your life with is the person that determine how you are gonna spend the rest of your life (even if you left him/her afterwards).
I don’t think am better than anyone I think anyone can simply choose not to let him/herself fall in love. Simply by using what God gave all of us “Our heads” so we no longer Fall in love but we simply jump in to love and before we jump we must look very well.
It might still blow up in our faces but at least it won’t be such a mess.
More love stories fail than those that work because people who don’t use their brains and can usually invest long years in a relationship that‘s so lousy that anyone can see it, they do it in the name of love , Just delaying the inevitable but never deleting it.
This is why I don’t believe in love form first sight or that love is blind or any other cliché, but I know for a fact that at the moment I find the right person to love, I’ll open the dam gates and get him emerged in feelings of love until then I’ll say
I’ve never fell in love, never had a crush, I am not cold but I refuse to let myself fall in love
and yet another Ramadan had passed
5 years ago
4 comments:
well u knw wat maybe u never fell in love or had a crush and sure ur not cold but ur only blocking ur feeling which is not something that most ppl do u probably saw a bad example maybe ur parents are divorced or had problems it might not be ur parents it may be anyone else but either way my opinion is that u should stop being scared coz i sense ALOT of fear from this blog and trust me love is not that scary Love is life if u never FELL in love then u never lived and ppl fall in love coz they're free and open to live and trust me falling is so much more fun than jumping
Love is a waste of time and effort.
The only person I ever fell in love with is myself... because I know I'm worth it!
yes i don't believe in love from first sight coz it just admiration of the person's looking, manytimes it fades away the minute u talk to him/her.
and yes, love is not blind, we choose to overcome what we c for what we feel.
and it is very good that u control ur feelings but don't u feel that u miss it?
i always say that love is the most amazing feeling in the world, any love not just romantic love.
99% of the times i don't. and when i do i just go to sleep, LOL.
I do have feelings of love for my family and friends, sometimes i wish i could get raid of those too but no such luck :)
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